Luca Marinelli, I need you to cover Zitti e Buoni, please and thank you
Luca Marinelli, I need you to cover Zitti e Buoni, please and thank you
Fakt des Tages:
Europäische Tastaturen haben eine spezielle Taste, die dich sofort mit dem Livestream vom Songcontest verbindet. Sie befindet sich meistens im linken oberen Eck der Tastatur und ist als ESC-Taste eindeutig gekennzeichnet.
@ my fellow adults who use tumblr a lot:
can you PLEASE put your age in your about/sidebar and make sure it’s accessible on mobile. imo if you’re an adult esp 20+ it’s a little weird that you wouldn’t have your age readily available on your blog. if you’re reading this now and you don’t have your age listed, please rectify that. i feel like teenagers get lured into talking to adults in fandom/lgbt spaces that they may not have intentionally sought out because they think they’re talking to other teenagers, and this can lead to a lot of other – much more insidious –problems
I know other people have already refuted this, but seeing the original message still going around I’d like to point out just a couple of reasons why this request - while well intentioned - misses a lot of key points:
1. This is working under the assumption that tumblr is a space solely (or at least primarily) for teenagers/kids and that simply isn’t the case. Historically the creation of fanfiction, fanvids, fanart, etc. has been done by people in their twenties and older. Think about how many years it takes to learn how to craft a good story. Think about what you need to pull something like a con together. That person with the Skill you admire? There’s a very good chance they’re an adult. It used to be that kids pretended to be 18+ because they knew online fan communities were adult spaces. I’m not sure when this switch happened, but it needs to stop.
2. It is not “a little weird” that people don’t put their age on their blog. I have mine because I’m comfortable sharing it and my fan identity/irl identity are already really conflated, but a lot of people - most people - want to keep personal information to themselves. There’s nothing wrong with that and insisting that we reveal that information is all kinds of wrong. Can you ask someone their age? Certainly! Maybe they’ll tell you, maybe they won’t, but regardless you are not entitled to that information.
3. The children on here? They are not my responsibility. If kids/teens are worried about who they’re talking to then they should either a) be careful about who they interact with or b) not use this website. If they’re too young to understand this then they’re too young to be online without parental supervision. Now, how can a teen be careful about who they interact with? Check the person’s blog. See the kind of content they post. See if there are any hints about their age (mentions of school, job, birthdays, etc.) - or again, just ask! I’ve had plenty of people on here decide they only want certain types of interaction with me after discovering my age and that’s fine. But it’s not my job to monitor everyone else’s internet use.
4. Finally, I find the language here to be rather concerning. “A little weird,” teenagers are “lured,” leading to things that are “much more insidious”… all of this, whether intentionally or not, frames anyone 20+ as intrinsically predatory. It also takes agency away from anyone under 18. Teenagers aren’t “lured” into talking to me, they make that decision on their own. They are their own person capable of making their own decisions, gathering information before making that decision (like asking someone’s age) or, if they can’t do these two steps then again, they should not be online. We’ve come right back to point #1: this is not your space. It’s our space. I’m not some trespasser here who only gets to stay provided that I cater to those younger than me. If anything, based on how much of online content is geared towards adults, kids should be working under the assumption that they are speaking to an adult until proven otherwise, especially on websites like tumblr that cater to all ages. Don’t assume you’re talking to another teenager. Don’t project onto a person and then get mad when you find out you’re wrong. That’s not them tricking you, that’s you failing to take responsibility for yourself.
You want to know someone’s age? Ask, and then work with the answer you’re given. But someone failing to give you private information up front isn’t weird or predatory or insidious. The quicker everyone realizes that the better off we’ll all be.
These are very, very good points.
I came into fandom when it was HIGHLY unusual for a younger teenager to be included in fandom spaces, and that was not that long ago. This sudden shift into fandom being for youth only is really disheartening. Who do you think organizes the cons you like? Chances are, it’s not a 18-year-old high school student, but a 40 year old project manager and a bunch of geeky IT professionals who love the fandom as much as anyone else.
Fandom is a shared space. Everyone has to share the responsibility of keeping it safe.Also, Tumblr didn’t start as a fandom space - there’s a good number of us who’ve been here from before it became LiveJournal 2.0.
Also, Tumblr is a 17+ app.
So let’s not get too precious about who is and is not supposed to be here my young friend.
God, imagine thinking that strangers owe you to have personal information out on display? And acuse them of being predatory otherwise?
The Old Guard Family + popular text posts - part 20⌛️
i hate hate hate people who whine about “glorifying obesity” like that is an actual real thing that happens in actual real life. like dig this: walk into a supermarket. go to the checkout. look at the magazine covers. count the number of fat people you see. is that number greater than 1? how many of those are “before” pictures in some crash diet, badly lit with a sad facial expression? turn on your tv and count the number of fat people you see on any tv show. are they comic relief? are any of them in healthy, loving relationships? are any of them depicted as desirable? loved?
depicting a fat model who is happy and pretty is not glorifying obesity. it’s saying “look, fat people, you don’t have to change some fundamental aspect of who you are to be happy and feel pretty”. it’s an attempt to normalize it, if anything, which is probably important seeing as the average american woman looks more like, say, tess holiday than she does any of the other models you’ll see on a magazine cover. fat people are still drowning in a sea of revolutionary weight loss products and calories in versus calories out and “you’d be so much prettier if you just loss some weight” and you want to tell me for a single second that obesity is fucking glorified?
if obesity were actually glorified, we’d have fewer cases of eating disorders, i’d bet. i bet little girls’ self confidence wouldn’t peak at age nine. i bet fat teenagers wouldn’t get criticized by their family for baking cupcakes on the fourth of july, because shouldn’t they be eating something a little better? i bet my mom, and my best friend, and half the other women in this fucking country would have a better relationship with food, wouldn’t be afraid of it, wouldn’t make little comments every time they eat more than they “should”, because who decided how much a person “should” eat?
if you’re mad about fat people not being miserable and filled with self-hatred all the time, just come out and say it. don’t try to disguise it with this “glorifying obesity” bullshit because i’m done with it.
This person said it perfectly.
Random my ass, they knew exactly what they were doing!!!
Finland FUCKS holy shit
this is what I want to see people
Big Linkin Park vibes, awesome song, perfect use of pyro
This may be a ballad (for now), but the black/white and the drag give plus points.
if iceland wins, quarantined in their hotel room and duncan won’t be there to give them the trophy either because he’s quarantined too it’ll just be a full audience watching them on zoom lmao